Thursday, October 21, 2010

Internet Dating Scams-don't be a victim


The growing popularity of online dating coupled by anonymity has led to an increase in Internet dating scams. Is awful enough to rip a lonely heart already-but to rip the heart, as well as the owner's bank account? We talk about extreme brutality and Yes, heartlessness.

Internet dating scams come in various shapes and the authors are always creating new ones.Obvious is the dating site scam. This is simply an operation fly out sell stakes in as many as possible and then disappear without offering the service.

As a scam site almost certainly will cost much less than a typical dating site, although promising offer a similar offer better service.Well, it seems too good to be true, usually.

A variation of the scam dating sites is site pornographic disguised as a dating site or, more often, a dating site for adult. normally, as a website will use images of attractive "Members" to lure you in.

Some prostitutes knowledgeable discovered that is more profitable-and much safer-to post a profile on an adult dating site than to work even better streets. for prostitute, her (and in some cases it) has a global market.

But Internet dating scams are getting more complex when they go international. the most common is Russian bride scam email.This is targeting people of first world countries (the USA being main target).

The majority of Russians Internet dating scams begin with man be contacted by an attractive young woman.Often but not always, the man is much older than the woman.The scammer is counting on a man being gullible due to being flattered by the thought of an attractive young woman, showing interest in it.

After a few emails, the woman claims to be in love with the man and wants to join him in his country. She asks for money for a passport, Visa, airfare and traveling expenses (at once or in stages). She suggests transferring money or other means of sending money irreversible.

Once the man sends the money, two things can happen. the woman may simply disappear. Or there may be a family "tragedy" for which she needs money extra man unhappy. She can also claim to hold an airport happen for several reasons it is milk as much money as possible off the poor guy.

This type of fraud is usually done by men Russians or unions employing women (for rates very scarce) to use there profiles and get the money for them.

Unfortunately, this scam is also helped by attitudes and stereotypes. Russian women's perception as desperate to leave their country is an example.So is the assumption that everyone wants to emigrate to the West, especially the United States.

There is also the Nigerian scam (and lately Ghana). Nigerian Scams are a bit more difficult to detect that con artists most are people generally good that usually do their homework;and they can be extraordinarily patients.

You get contacted by an "American citizen" working in foreign country.Since it is the contact and some level of trust established, the scam artist asks you for money money orders him/her. Orders are fraudulent and you are left to pay your bank the amounts paid.

Sometimes the scammer is not after the money they are after sending aid for merchandise purchased with stolen credit cards.

Most scams begin in chat rooms or free Internet dating sites.Why? why scam scam artist wants as many people as possible, without spending money.In addition, pay sites require the use of a credit card, that can be crawled by the owner.

How do you protect yourself against these or other types of Internet scams?There are no guarantees, as well as you do not have a guarantee of not getting in an accident, because you are a careful driver.But you can minimize the risks, or become a target difficult (scammers are lazy and goes to the easier target).

1. to get started, sign up with a reputable dating site.A paysite is always more secure as a is required to use a credit card, that can be crawled by the owner.Of course, there is the possibility of someone using a stolen credit card, but the risk is minimal compared to a site free or chat room.

2. Beware of someone who claims to fall in love with you after just a few emails.Start by being skeptical.

3. never send money to a stranger in another country. Heck, never send money to a stranger in his own country (duh!).

4. do not provide personal data, such as home address, phone number, bank account, real email or credit card number. don't give even your real name, so make sure that the person is real and certainly not after two or three emails.

5. do not dispose of a money order from your "data" in your bank account. If you, wait a couple of weeks to make sure is not false. better yet, wait for the clean money order before forwarding the money.

6. Ask more than one photo. A scam artist, usually say Nigeria, would have a difficult time faking more than one photo. Furthermore, ask many questions specific. If you feel discomfort or inaccuracy at the other end, cut the relationship.

7. follow your bowels. If feels something wrong, it probably is. If it is too good to be true it usually is.

Don't let bad apples prevent you from finding love online. many people have discovered happy, lasting relationships with local or foreign partners found themselves on the Web. just know that Internet dating scams are real and keep alert for red flags.







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